SEXPERTISE UNIVERSITY · ADULT EDUCATION · 18+
Intimacy After Betrayal
Boundaries, trust, and the question of closeness
You do not have to rush back into closeness to prove you are moving forward.
Explore the curriculum ↓WHAT YOU ARE WORKING TOWARD
Clarify boundaries and readiness while making informed choices about closeness and the relationship.
You can use this course independently. Joint activities will be optional and require mutual willingness; reconciliation is not the assumed outcome.
Sex is not evidence that trust has returned.
A LOOK INSIDE
Your course map
Six planned modules.
Room to learn at your own pace.
Curriculum preview: complete lessons, videos, and downloadable resources are being developed. Titles and sequence may be refined before enrollment.
MODULE 1When the Relationship Changes Overnight
Different experiences of betrayal, uncertainty, disrupted trust, and permission to pause major decisions.
- When What You Knew Changes
- Uncertainty & Permission to Pause
- Your Immediate Needs & Support Map
Planned resource: An immediate-needs and support map
MODULE 2Safety Before Closeness
Emotional and sexual boundaries, healthcare conversations, privacy, ongoing deception, and coercion.
- What Do You Need Before Closeness?
- Sexual Health, Privacy & Personal Care
- Your Boundaries & Care Checklist
Planned resource: A personal boundaries and care checklist
MODULE 3Accountability You Can Observe
Responsibility, honesty, consistency, agreements, and follow-through.
- Reassurance & Observable Responsibility
- Agreements That Mean Something
- Your Accountability Worksheet
Planned resource: An accountability-and-agreements worksheet
MODULE 4Your Response Does Not Decide Your Future
Desire, avoidance, ambivalence, comparison, and the meaning attached to sexual contact.
- Desire, Distance & Mixed Feelings
- Comparison & the Meaning We Give Sex
- Your Readiness & Choice Reflection
Planned resource: A readiness-and-choice reflection
MODULE 5Reconnection, If You Choose It
Optional affection, conversation, touch boundaries, stopping, and revisiting agreements.
- Choice Before Reconnection
- Optional Affection & Touch Boundaries
- Build a Connection Menu Together, If You Choose
Planned resource: A mutually agreed connection menu
MODULE 6Repair, Separation, or More Time
Discernment, personal values, sustainable agreements, and accessing support.
- What Direction Fits Your Values?
- Support & Sustainable Agreements
- Your Individual Next-Step Plan
Planned resource: An individual next-step plan
DESIGNED FOR REAL LIFE
Understand it.
Make it your own.
The learning experience we are building
Focused teaching, written lessons, captioned videos and transcripts where used, practical worksheets, and optional practice activities. Knowledge checks will assess factual understanding, never your personal experiences or readiness.
A place for Connected
Connected by Dr. Meg is our upcoming daily-practice companion. App access and course-linked activities are not currently included or available. This course is being designed to stand on its own.
Meet Connected ↗Before you begin
This is adult education, not individualized therapy, medical treatment, or crisis support. Participation does not create a therapist–client relationship. No academic accreditation, professional certification, or continuing education credit is offered.
If you are looking for individualized support, explore Dr. Meg’s practice at Intimate Roots ↗.
A MORE INFORMED INTIMATE LIFE
Curiosity is a good
place to begin.
View enrollment status ↑Enrollment will open when the course is ready.