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SEXPERTISE UNIVERSITY · ADULT EDUCATION · 18+

Intimacy After Betrayal

Boundaries, trust, and the question of closeness

You do not have to rush back into closeness to prove you are moving forward.

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WHAT YOU ARE WORKING TOWARD

Clarify boundaries and readiness while making informed choices about closeness and the relationship.

You can use this course independently. Joint activities will be optional and require mutual willingness; reconciliation is not the assumed outcome.

Sex is not evidence that trust has returned.

A LOOK INSIDE

Your course map

Six planned modules.
Room to learn at your own pace.

Curriculum preview: complete lessons, videos, and downloadable resources are being developed. Titles and sequence may be refined before enrollment.

MODULE 1When the Relationship Changes Overnight

Different experiences of betrayal, uncertainty, disrupted trust, and permission to pause major decisions.

  1. When What You Knew Changes
  2. Uncertainty & Permission to Pause
  3. Your Immediate Needs & Support Map

Planned resource: An immediate-needs and support map

MODULE 2Safety Before Closeness

Emotional and sexual boundaries, healthcare conversations, privacy, ongoing deception, and coercion.

  1. What Do You Need Before Closeness?
  2. Sexual Health, Privacy & Personal Care
  3. Your Boundaries & Care Checklist

Planned resource: A personal boundaries and care checklist

MODULE 3Accountability You Can Observe

Responsibility, honesty, consistency, agreements, and follow-through.

  1. Reassurance & Observable Responsibility
  2. Agreements That Mean Something
  3. Your Accountability Worksheet

Planned resource: An accountability-and-agreements worksheet

MODULE 4Your Response Does Not Decide Your Future

Desire, avoidance, ambivalence, comparison, and the meaning attached to sexual contact.

  1. Desire, Distance & Mixed Feelings
  2. Comparison & the Meaning We Give Sex
  3. Your Readiness & Choice Reflection

Planned resource: A readiness-and-choice reflection

MODULE 5Reconnection, If You Choose It

Optional affection, conversation, touch boundaries, stopping, and revisiting agreements.

  1. Choice Before Reconnection
  2. Optional Affection & Touch Boundaries
  3. Build a Connection Menu Together, If You Choose

Planned resource: A mutually agreed connection menu

MODULE 6Repair, Separation, or More Time

Discernment, personal values, sustainable agreements, and accessing support.

  1. What Direction Fits Your Values?
  2. Support & Sustainable Agreements
  3. Your Individual Next-Step Plan

Planned resource: An individual next-step plan

DESIGNED FOR REAL LIFE

Understand it.
Make it your own.

The learning experience we are building

Focused teaching, written lessons, captioned videos and transcripts where used, practical worksheets, and optional practice activities. Knowledge checks will assess factual understanding, never your personal experiences or readiness.

A place for Connected

Connected by Dr. Meg is our upcoming daily-practice companion. App access and course-linked activities are not currently included or available. This course is being designed to stand on its own.

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Before you begin

This is adult education, not individualized therapy, medical treatment, or crisis support. Participation does not create a therapist–client relationship. No academic accreditation, professional certification, or continuing education credit is offered.

If you are looking for individualized support, explore Dr. Meg’s practice at Intimate Roots ↗.

A MORE INFORMED INTIMATE LIFE

Curiosity is a good
place to begin.

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Enrollment will open when the course is ready.